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I was going to wait on this one. Placed within
the publication of the book. But I will comment
on this, all important area of life, at this time.
There is a complete chapter on this topic
within the book, Bubbles From The Heart.
People like to make the analogy of "What's
most important in a relationship?" "Good
sex (the bedroom)?" Or "Whether the
woman can cook well, or not?"
My answer is "Neither!"
This surprises you. Doesn't it!
Let me explain. An experienced person
would agree with me.
The most important thing in a relationship
are "true and sincere feelings!" This is the
key. Without true feelings, this sort of
"great sex" is going to get old. Without
true feelings for your partner, those great
dishes of food aren't going to taste "so
great" after awhile.
Surely "great sex" and "good cooking" helps
to enhance some solid feelings for the other.
But "sincere feelings" for your partner is the
key. That's why couples should start off being
friends first. Then progress to these other
Think about it this way: If you can have sex
on the first date with your partner, some other
person can come along and do the same thing.
Which may mean that "you don't have any
thing special!" If you can do it, someone
else can do the same thing. If you are just
out for sex, that's one thing. On the other
hand, if you want a lasting relationship,
just maybe you should "slow down"
and get to know your "partner to be"
better. Just start off talking. This is a
I'm speaking from experience. "Easy come,
easy go." And if "he or she" is that easy for
you to get into bed, some other person
can come along and do the same thing.
A woman who is a great cook, is excellent.
Most of the guys I know can cook for them-
selves. I can cook, being that I've been
single all my life. But it's still great to have
a "woman or man (whichever applies)"
who is a good cook.
It's really great to have "strong feelings,
great food, and great sex!"
The important thing is that "strong feelings"
make up for the inefficiences of the latter two.
If "true feelings" are there, you'll overlook
a lot of other stuff.
The latter two will help to enhance "true
feelings" within time. So, why rush it?
"Easy come, easy go!" If you can "hit"
it quickly, someone else can do the same
thing. You ain't doing any thing big. You
just didn't know the whole story.
I don't care "how well one can shake it,"
without strong sincere feelings, this sort
of thing is going to get old, fast.
Because you're not the only one "who can
shake it." There is a "guy or girl" on every
block, "who can shake it." If your relation-
ship is built mostly on sex, what happens
if you have a physical, mental, or emotional
problem, where the sex isn't happening so
Or, suppose your partner find someone "who
can shake it a little better than you?" It's got
to be more to life than sex, or even great sex.
If this wasn't so, the prostitutes would have
all the married people in town.
"A devil in the bedroom, and an angel in
the streets." People like to show off the
good and mannerable people. But behind
doors, when no one is watching, they like
to go crazy. And they want the partner to
do the same.
To each, its own!
I prefer to care about my partner, and I want
her to care about me. Otherwise I'll feel like
I'm getting used.
Some guys, and girls like this sort of thing.
I had a friend to make resolutions
about how "these women just abused his body,
all year long, with sex for days, and days. And
how he was going to stop this sort of abuse."
And then he started laughing.
He loved it. He loved the sex. He didn't love
the women. He cannot be in love with that
many women. No way!
He was in it for the fun.
And then, it got old.
He got old.
And he couldn't even get an erection, later.
He was threw!
Out of gas!
You live and you learn.
You have to watch it. Or you'll
be out of gas. The friend in this
sequence was 29 years old.
And out of gas! I don't know if he ever
I've dated some of the most beautiful women
in the world, with the pictures to prove it. I
know it's more to life than just "great sex"
and "great cooking". If this is all you're
banking on, you're in for a big surprise,
later down the road. You would be wise
to explore how "he or she" really feels
about you. And positively expand from
We all have a lot of work to do.
In case you're wondering about me. I have
had my chances to get married. I was (on
2 occasions) 2 days away from getting married
when I was in the United States Air Force.
One was a girl from Pittsburgh, California
(it's 20 miles from Oakland). And the other
from St. Simons Island, Georgia. I decided
not to marry either one. I had help from one
of the girl's father.
I said "Sir, I know I'm a stranger to you. But I
will treat your daughter right. I'll be good to her."
He told me (by phone) that "I sound like a really
nice guy. And that he was sure that I would be
good to his daughter." He went on to say that
"He just wasn't sure if his daughter would treat
Then, I put the brakes on! When a father says
something like that, you better ask for an extended
conversation. Placed the marriage on hold!
You see, in the Service, you can get married within
days, so you can get what is called "Joint Spouse"
so you and your wife can be stationed at the same
base. But I cancelled. Let's be nice and say "We
cancelled." That's better. Within 2 weeks of the
conversation, I caught a flight from Hampton,
Virginia to Pittsburgh, California to visit the
Dad was great! Younger sister was great! The
mother was great, then! She was upset at
first because I was going to marry her daughter
without meeting the family. Once I arrived, she
Everyone was great, except one person. Guess who?
The young lady that I was to marry.
I have thanked her father every day, for his advice.
The father knew his daughter better than I did.
Good people, good daughter. She just wasn't
mature enough. And the parents knew it.
The younger sister was more mature than her
older sister. The younger sister and I wrote
each other for 4 years.
May God forever bless this family, and especial-
ly the father.
In conclusion (at this moment), individuals
should never assume that "because you're
involved in love-making, that both people
have strong and sincere feelings for the other.
Because this isn't always the case."
There's a thing such as "having sex." Then
there's "making love." In many situations,
they're two different conditions. Involved
in just "having sex," when the "sex" is
over, the feelings are over as well. In-
volved in "making love," when the ac-
tion is over, the feelings persist. In
other words, the feelings continue.
This means "the feelings are for real,"
maybe. It may mean "true love".
But maybe not! "Making real love"
involves so many things, we certainly
don't see them all. Many of the aspects
are physical. But they also involve
mental and emotional properties.
"Real love-making" commands lots of
effort and trueness on the part of both
You want "real, true feelings" to continue.
Something to build upon! You don't get
this sort of thing (all the time) by just
This is what animals do. Just have sex!
They only do it to reproduce. Humans
are the only species to have sex, just
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